Coaching vs. Counseling

"I'm not crazy and I don't need therapy." Most people associate therapy and counseling with having a mental health issue and there continues to be a stigma attached to seeking the services of psychotherapist. Many people have issues and symptoms that would give them a mental health diagnosis but do not feel they need to be “treated.” In many cases the symptoms are due to not having the skills to manage emotions and handle the problems they faced in life. They might not have a diagnosis if they had developed these skills.

What I do is teach (train, if you will) my clients the skills they need in order to improve quality of life and increase the satisfaction they get from relationships as well as life in general. A coach teaches people skills and how to apply those skills. In this case the skills include those you may need in order to improve your self-esteem, your mood, your relationships, and your overall effectiveness in managing all areas of your life, as well as having a feeling of wellbeing. Changing how your mind works, what things mean to you, and learning new behaviors will go a long way toward improving your life.

Why Should I Be Your Coach?

As a coach I am very directive and involved with clients as they learn to change thinking, beliefs, and the things they do in order to get more from life. If you are willing to put in the effort, you will experience major improvement in your life with my help. I have a Masters Degree in mental health counseling and nearly 20 years working in mental health, addiction, and human sexuality. I am a Certified Sexologist. I have helped hundreds of people overcome the issues that have caused them problems and interfered with a satisfying life. During my years in this profession I have also helped many couples have more satisfying relationships. Most Life Coaches do not have nearly the degree of training and experience I do. I also have a life experience in which I have had to learn to change and adapt and even reinvent myself. My passion lies in helping people make positive changes and find a more rewarding life. I am deeply invested in improving lives. This isn't just a job to me.

I also have extensive experience working with clients who live alternative lifestyles, providing a safe place for people living all alternative lifestyles to talk openly and explore ways to improve quality of life. I work with members of the GLBT community and have a genuine understanding of what it takes to change. My role as a coach is to work in partnership with my clients to guide and empower them to find solutions to life's problems. You will have a safe space to explore the issues that are holding you back and find solutions.

I have worked with many people who engage in compulsive sexual behaviors (Sex Addiction). See my article "Understanding of Sexual Addiction; Are you a sex addict?"

Do You Have Unresolved Abuse Or Trauma Issues?

Ask me about Rapid Resolution Therapy. You can resolve these issues in one or two sessions.

Coaching Via Webcam is also available !!!!!

I have been working with clients via webcam for several years and it has become a more widely accepted way of providing services to clients. Here is an article in the New York Times:

Therapists are seeing patients online - New York Times

This works just like visiting my office without leaving the comfort of your home. Sessions last for an hour. Save gas and travel time, and there's no need to find a babysitter. You receive all the services clients visiting my office receive. All that's required is that you have a webcam and install SKYPE on your computer. SKYPE is encrypted, so it ensures your privacy and confidentiality. This is an ideal alternative to those living too far from my office to make office visits practical.